Ghosted

Wed, 31 Jan 2024 09:02:00 -0800

“Wajeeha,why did I get ‘ghosted’?

Please be honest; I really don’t get it.”

This is a question I am asked often.

So here goes the honest answer.

We are living in exciting times, with technology at our fingertips. It’s excellent because gone are the days ofletters, telephone boxes and messages sent through friends and families. We have the opportunity to connect with peopleanywhere in the world.

The downside, which we hear about all the time, is technology’s negative impact on
us physically and emotionally.

Technology can get in the way when it comes to connecting with someone to get to know for
the purpose of marriage. It can slow ourefforts, knock us off track or leave us so burnt that we don’t want to try again.

Technology has given people the ability to hide behind it, saying or doing things they
would never do in person. It’s changed the courtship norms of searching for a marriage partner.

Men and women come to me because they want to know why it’s so “hard” to find a
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Wajeeha Amin - Psychotherapist, Relationship Coach, Trainer & Speaker London

Ghosted