In the Quiet

If you are single…

And you want to be married…

And some nights the waiting feels heavier than your faith, come closer.

There is a kind of ache that no one sees.

You smile at weddings.

You say “Alhamdulillah” and mean it.

You make duaa with hope. And then at night, when it’s just you and Allah, your heart whispers,
“Ya Allah… when will it be my turn?”

If you have ever felt that, this was written for you.

In The Quiet is a 31-night duaa journal for women navigating the space between longing and trust. The space where you still believe in love… but you are tired of starting over. Where you want to stay soft… but you are scared of hardening.

These duaas were shaped by real conversations with women in this waiting season. Women who desire marriage deeply. Women who feel the ache of still being single longer than they imagined. Women holding hope in one hand and exhaustion in the other.

They speak to the hidden parts of waiting:

The longing to be chosen.
The fear of being left behind.
The replaying of the “almost.”
The quiet prayer not only for a husband, but for a family where you are welcomed, cherished, and safe.

You are not dramatic.
You are not ungrateful.
You are longing.

And longing is not weakness. It is a tender heart that has not yet been met.

Instead of pushing your feelings down…
instead of pretending you do not care…
instead of spiralling alone at night, this journal gives your heart somewhere to be held.

Over 31 nights, you’ll be gently supported to:

• Quiet the overthinking that keeps you awake at night
• Heal the ache of the “almost” without blaming yourself
• Loosen the fear that whispers you’ll be single forever
• Trust that what is written for you — your rizq — cannot miss you
• Rest in Allah’s timing, even when it feels slow
• Stop chasing reassurance and start feeling steady within yourself
• Set boundaries without carrying guilt afterwards
• Recognise the difference between real intention and empty words
• Remember your worth when disappointment tries to shrink it
• Detach without becoming cold or cynical
• Wait with dignity — not panic — anchored in tawakkul

This is not about forcing yourself to “be patient.”

It’s about learning how to wait in a way that protects your heart, while trusting that what Allah has written for you will arrive at the right time, in the right way.

And until then… you remain held. 🤍

Each night gently holds you through:

• A thoughtfully written duaa that gives words to what you may have been carrying silently
• Gentle emotional insight to help you understand what’s happening inside you
• Guided reflection prompts to slow your thoughts and steady your heart
• One small, grounded next step, so you’re not just feeling, but moving with intention

Not pressure.
Not overwhelm.
Just one steady night at a time. 🤍

At the end of the 31 nights, when your heart feels steadier, you’ll receive a grounded guide for moving forward.

Because making duaa is powerful.

And knowing how to move with wisdom matters too. This framework gently supports you to:

• Approach conversations with clarity instead of confusion
• Step away from vague, endless “talking stages”
• Ask direct questions calmly — without fear of seeming “too much”
• Protect your dignity, even when you really like someone
• Recognise the difference between real intention and empty consistency
• Move toward marriage without shrinking yourself to keep someone

It’s there to help you align your action with your duaa. So you’re not just hoping. You’re walking wisely, while trusting that what Allah has written for you cannot miss you. 🤍

This journey was originally written as 30 duaas.

But during a conversation with a client, something important came up. When we make duaa for a husband, we often focus on the man, his character, his faith, his consistency. And that matters. But marriage is not just choosing a spouse.

It is entering another family. another home, another ecosystem, another set of dynamics. It is asking Allah to place you in a system where you will live, grow, and belong. So a 31st duaa was added. A duaa for the chosen family. For in-laws who are gentle. For a home where you are respected. For relationships that feel safe. For being welcomed not merely tolerated.

Because you are not just asking for a husband. You are asking for a place to belong.

And that is a duaa worth making. 🤍

You still believe in love…

But you refuse to lose yourself while waiting.

You want marriage…

But not at the cost of your peace.

You are tired of spiralling alone at night…and ready to be anchored.

This is not just something to read. It is something to sit with.

Digital PDF eBook

31 Guided Duuas

Duaas shaped by the real ache of women waiting for marriage. Each one gives language to what often feels too vulnerable to say out loud, the fear of being left behind, the longing to be chosen with honour, the exhaustion of starting again, and the deeper prayer for a family where you are welcomed, cherished, and safe.

Structured Heart Work

After each duaa, you’ll find gentle reflection prompts to help you slow your thoughts, untangle emotional loops, and respond thoughtfully instead of reacting from panic. A space where sincerity meets steadiness.

Post-Ramadan Courting Framework

A grounded guide for moving forward with clarity. How to approach conversations intentionally. How to recognise seriousness. How to avoid vague “talking stages.” How to set boundaries without guilt and protect your dignity while exploring marriage.

Because waiting is not passive.
And you deserve to move wisely — not desperately.

If your chest has been carrying somethingquiet… If you have whispered, “Ya Allah… I am tired. But I am still here.”

You do not have to wait alone. This is not about fixing yourself. It is about being steadied while you are being guided.

Begin gently.

And let Allah meet you in the quiet. 🤍

I am not a scholar, nor a person of knowledge.

The most perfect duaas are those preserved in the Qur’an and those taught by the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.

These pages are simply reflections an attempt to place the heart into words.

Think of them as companions to your own duaa. Not replacements. Not perfection. Just words to steady you while you return to Allah’s.